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Find Femmes is a dating site aimed at feminine identified LGBTQ women, aka femmes/ lipstick lesbians.It can be hard to find love, and a community, when you’re a femme, and we’re here to help!As a butch woman, it is impossible to ignore the implication that, for certain people, women like me are the least attractive creatures on the planet.Umbrage-taking aside, however, the question raises the issue of whose standards of beauty apply in a queer female context. In fact, butch lesbians often do quite well when it comes to attracting female attention.TITLE: Side Chick Blues AUTHOR: María Lapachet AUTHOR URL: Butch/Femme Erotica PUBLISHER: Cordoba Books EXCERPT RATING: MA DESCRIPTION: María Lapachet's poetry chapbook “Side Chick Blues” cuts like a grainy 16mm short film of ferocious need and burning love doused in a hot tub of fresh blood, yet breathing loud. Continue reading Dear butches who ask femmes out on dates using the word “date,” touch base during the week/days prior to the date, plan a great evening and dress accordingly, are on time or give us a heads up if you get stuck in traffic, pick us up from home or the subway entrance (sometimes with flowers, … There's absolutely nothing that a little prosecco, some Adele, and the right stone butch can't fix. Continue reading Butch Season: a time in a femme’s life when she declares open hunting on all single butches or stone butches in sight and sound. Yet the dominant version of what is and isn't considered attractive can bring a lot of baggage with it—ask any man who prefers fat women to thin, for instance, about the social stigma that can come with bucking societal expectations in that area. In the interest of fully exploring the minds of women who find butches sexy, I also asked Madeline and Cassie how they felt about a related stereotype about butch women—that we are all obese and ugly.
That is as true for heterosexual men who prefer their ladies thin and pretty as it is for lesbians who like their women masculine of center.
Better than our straight butch peers, at any rate: I have a friend who is straight, masculine-of-center, and perpetually aggrieved by how often women seek her out and flirt with her, as compared with the men she's actually interested in.
For whatever reason, it seems that masculinity in women is something that some ladies really respond to.
You will only be able to message femmes within your own country.
Conquering long distance between countries is very difficult, so we hope you can find friendship/love nearby!